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How to Know if She is the One, Part 1 |
In dating a woman you don't have to have money. You just have to have technique, ingenuity and finesse. You've met and are dating a woman falling head over hills for her. You think that she is the greatest thing that has ever happened to you in your life. But is she? This is the logical question that you have to ask yourself in dating a woman. You can meet a woman in a positive environment, and everything on the surface can appear that all is well with the one you've met. There are exceptions to the rule, and things are not always cracked up as they appear to be. You can be dating a woman, and there is a saying that love is blind. It's easy to become enticed or infatuated by her physical beauty and overlook the serious issues that she may have with her inner-self. These things happen and there are women who can go sour. If you are not careful you'll be caught up in her trap with a lifestyle of doom and gloom with her.
Your objective in dating a woman is to treat her like a queen, but in return, you are expecting her to
treat you like a king and no less than a prince. Beware of any woman, after a period of time, who wants to date you and then decides to treat you like a doormat. This relationship needs to be seriously evaluated as to whether or not you want to deal with such mental cruelty and abuse. Life is too short to dance with ugly people, and the best of us can make a mistake in love. This is nothing to be ashamed of nor embarrassed about. It's important for you to be sure that your life is on track and not somewhere out in left field.
A woman's physical appearance is only half the battle. A woman can be pretty on the outside but ugly as sin on the inside. Physical appearance is important, as far as being attracted to a woman, but her personality and attitude toward you is everything in making a relationship work. Most men, when it comes to women, don't get past the physical. These men don't have a clue as to what kind of women they are really dealing with. These men are what you call shallow people who are not in touch with their feelings. When you invest your feelings and emotions on a woman, and she is just tearing you down from one end to the other, then it's time to pull in the reins. Tell her that you are not the one being disrespectful here, and that you don't deserve this kind of treatment from your worst enemy, let alone someone you care about. If she continues to treat you badly, then tell her, "I'm afraid we're going to have to go our separate ways." Look her in the eyes in a stern way and let her know that you mean business. She will either straighten up and start respecting you or agree with you and say, "Good bye." It's either one way or the other because life is too short to be treated like yesterday's garbage. When you put her in her place, believe me, she'll change her attitude toward you for the better. Let her know that you can play the game anyway she wants it, nice or rough. Sometimes women like to see how much they can push you, just to see how much they can get away with. You let her know that if you can bring one woman to the table, which is her, then you can bring another woman to the table. She'll realize that you mean business, and if she has any feelings toward you at all, she will get the message to behave herself. The thought of losing you could be just enough to turn her around for the better.
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