How to Be Seductive, Part 5

Keep trying this approach, on every woman who interests you, until you succeed. There will be various opportunities to approach beautiful women and ask for that first date. You may see a beautiful women on a Sunday afternoon in a grocery store. Ask, "Excuse me. Is it true that brown rice is better than white rice? Or is white rice better then brown rice?" She answers you. Then you get into a conversation with her. When the feeling and time is right, you ask her out. You are somewhat like a direct sales person because you are selling yourself. You are giving her, the buyer, all the benefits of yourself. You let her know what makes you special and in closing you ask for the order which is the date. The buyer, who is the woman you are trying to convince, will either say, yes, no, or maybe. If she says yes to a date, you've done a great job in selling yourself and convincing her. If she says no or maybe, you haven't given her enough information. If she says, "No, I can't go out with you because I'm involved with someone," then you say, "Oh that's great and if I were him I would be very happy. I'm sure he is a really great guy." She says, "He is." You say, "Just out of curiosity, are you and he engaged or do you have a pretty serious relationship with him?" She says "No, we are not serious, but we are dating." You reply, "Oh, I see, that's great. Well, if you are dating and you are not serious, how would you like to have that insurance down the road just in case something may happen between you and him?" She says, "What do you mean?" You say, "Well, I would certainly love to be your friend and get to know you as a friend. You never know what's down the road. If you and your boyfriend would ever breakup, I would certainly be a good shoulder to lean on." She says, "Ok." You see you've just taken the pressure off her. She doesn't have to make a quick decision that she is not in a position to make. Then, if something would happen down the road between her and her boyfriend, you are first in line to take his place. Patience, patience, patience with a woman is a virtue. Always allow a woman to open up to you and allow her to share her feelings and emotions with you. You are her rock as well as her potential knight in shining armor. No one has ever said that you are always going to hit a home run on the very first try. Sometimes you have to settle for a few base hits in order to get the results you want. Timing is everything, and you might strike up a conversation with a woman. After talking with her a few minutes you get her name. Then you say, "Jill, do you have room in your life for a new friend?" Then smile and wait for her answer. Turning a stranger into a friend is only a hello away. Don't look to find the right person. Look to be the right person. In using icebreaking techniques to break the ice with a beautiful women you need to ask a constructive, sincere question that she can answer without feeling uptight. The first date is the foundation stone of your dating relationship. Without a good first date and great memories to share, the party could be over before it begins. There must be an interest for her to want to see more of you.

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