How to Be Seductive, Part 4

Beautiful women loathe jealous, possessive, abusive men who are insensitive to their feelings. Men who are not interested in being in-tune with a woman's feelings and emotions have caused a great deal of distrust between men and women. This is why you have so many women who would rather bond with their girlfriends for emotional support and encouragement. Men, by many women, have been thrown out. These men are now on the outside looking in. Therefore, as a form of protection, these women have become emotionally unavailable. So there are women who use men for what they can get. Some get involved with a rich man for his money. Others date a man because he is super good-looking. Dating him is more of a status symbol. What makes you special, over men who missed the boat, is that you are willing to get into her head and act as a sounding board when it comes to dealing with her feelings, frustrations, and sometimes her moodiness. Biologically, women are different than men. Their metabolism is constantly changing. A woman will take a man who is understanding with a big heart, any day, over a man who is rich or good-looking. Mind you that being rich and good looking will help, but it's not the carte blanche that it once was. Women in the work force now make as much money as men, if not more. Never be intimidated or feel insecure because you feel that you don't have enough money, or that you have nothing to offer, or you are not good-looking enough. These are nothing but smoke screens that have been used by women to keep men from entering their world. Men also have a problem with women who are richer than they are, or women who have a better job and make more money. This is another smoke screen fabricated by women as a defense to keep undesirable men away. What you mentally, and emotionally have to offer a beautiful women is a lot more valuable than a few more bucks or a better job. You must be strong and not be intimidated. You must not feel inferior with any woman, at any time, no matter who they are, or what they have. Use courage and confidence to approach her. Cultivate the desire to ask her out on a date and show her a good time. This will be more valuable than all the money in the world. Women want attention, and they want to be noticed. You as a man do not need to become paralyzed in her presence. Make a move on her. Make eye contact and say, "Hi." Smile and introduce yourself, then ask her out. It's like one, two, three. If she says, "No," then thank her for her time and move on to someone else until you get a "Yes." You need to develop a sense of humor. If you are witty, in a normal way, with the ability to make her laugh, then your chances of making her want to go out with you become greatly enhanced. Opening lines with imagination and creativity must be used in breaking the ice with a group of gorgeous women sitting at a table at a restaurant. Women in groups are making small talk with their friends, laughing. They are real upbeat. Getting their attention, in the right manner, is going to arouse their interest. Before you approach the one you are interested in, be sure to check for any wedding rings on their left ring fingers. If there is no wedding ring on her left ring finger, then you can assume she's open territory. When approaching a group of women seated at a table, be confident, courageous and upbeat. You walk over to the table and zero in on the one you want and say, "Excuse me, Miss. Have you ever lived in Boston?" She will say, "No." Start smiling and laughing while you are talking and say, "I know you are not going to believe this, but you look like a very good friend of mine that I graduated with in high school. I haven't seen her in years, but you look just like her." She says, "Well, "I'm not her." You say, "Her name is Joan. What's your name?" This catches her off guard she says, "My name is Debbie." You say, "Well, Debbie, they say that everybody has a twin, and you sure would pass for her twin." She says, "Yeah, I guess so." You reply, "Well, Debbie, I've made a mistake in identity by thinking that you were one of my very good friends. Even so, how about it if I give you a call sometime just to say 'Hi?' Do you have a business card or a cell phone number?" She says, "Yes, but I don't think so." She doesn't want to appear easy. You say, "Debbie, I'll tell you what. I know your mother always told you not to talk to strangers. But now, since you look so much like my friend, we are practically old friends ourselves. Here's my business card." On the back of your card, write, "This card is good for one cup of coffee with Dave, and it is not transferable." She will look at the back of the card and laugh and so will her friends. The chances are good that she will give you her cell phone or work number. Then, when you call her, you go for the coffee date.

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