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How to Be Seductive, Part 3 |
After you have her feeling really good about herself, then ask her what her favorite food is and at what kind of restaurants she enjoys eating. After she tells you, then ask her out for dinner. The odds are, after she sees what kind of wonderful, spectacular man you are, she is going to say, "Yes, I will go out with you."
Play it by ear if she says, "No" or "Maybe." If she just came off a bad relationship, or is in a relationship she wants to get out of, then be kind, considerate, understanding and patient with her. Make a big effort to be her friend. Give her your shoulder to lean on and a lending ear for her to talk to. With many women you have to be patient and allow them enough time to get their heads on straight.
You have to zero in on one woman at a time. After 30 days, if you determine that a woman you are pursuing for a first date doesn't snap out of it and wants to remain as a victim, then it's time to move on to someone else.
There are women who can brood for a lifetime about their past
hurts. Life is too short to spend too much time on a woman who is not responding. Always leave the door open with all women you meet. This allows them to respond to you when they are ready. In other words, don't burn your bridges. Give such a woman an occasional phone call to say hi, or leave the ball in her court to call you. Keep an open mind and an outgoing attitude to meet beautiful women. There are going to be women who will consent to go out with you.
There are men who spend their entire life dating one woman after another. This is not only expensive, but fruitless. This is not the way you really want to go. You don't want to develop the reputation as a womanizer, but rather a one-woman man.
You want a quality woman in your life, and it will be an exciting adventure in dating and getting to know her. When you meet a woman, she needs to see your true character as a sincere, devoted, dedicated man who knows how to be loyal and faithful to the one he is dating. Then your life is going to light up like the lights on Broadway, as she warms up to you by giving you affection and freely expressing her feelings towards you.
You must develop the art of planting emotional seeds of compassion in her mind. These seeds will grow and blossom to aid in healing her bad feelings and experiences of the past. The sooner you help her forget about the past, the sooner she is going to respond towards you in a very positive way.
Most men could care less about a woman's feelings, because they only care about how women feel about them. These insensitive men are dumped by thousands of women who are fed up with this abuse.
The key to success in dating beautiful women is to show that you are different from the rest of the crowd.
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