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How to Be Seductive, Part 2 |
Whoever said niceness is a weakness lied to you. Niceness is the most powerful strength in the world, and don't you ever forget it. This is your primary weapon that will break down her barriers and big time resistance towards you. Niceness will get her to say, "Yes, I will go out with you."
This meeting and dating game, with a woman, is a game of strategy, skill and strength. On your part, it will take a strong desire and imagination to want to be with her. You will have to endure the repercussions, consequences, and circumstances to get her to say, "Yes." With this kind of attitude and strength, there is no one who will defeat you, unless you let them or you beat yourself.
Never allow yourself to be infatuated by a woman who will not talk to you. This type of woman is not worth it. If you insist on pursuing someone who is not interested in your approach, I assure you that you will get in trouble with her. If a woman will talk with you, after you've meet her, that is half the battle. That will lead you up to that first date.
Verbally sparring with her is
like playing a card or chess game, and you are in the thick of it. You need to be highly skilled, technically sound, and a master at drawing her out of her shell. You show her right off the bat that you are a safe, gentle, kind man who is sensitive to her feelings and emotions. This approach makes her feel comfortable with you. She will confide in you and begin to feel she is getting to know you.
A woman's number one reason for rejecting men for first dates is, as they would say, "I Don't Know You!" Do you get the full picture as to why you must play ball in her league in order to score that first date with her? This is why you must open up your mind and make the effort for her to get to know you. She wants to be sure that she is meeting a wonderful man and not Jack The Ripper. Women have such a fear of being harmed by strange men that they don't know. This is the second biggest reason why women reject so many men. They tend to always look at a man they don't know as a potential mass murderer. In this day and age, they have very good reason to feel this way.
She's frightened and scared of the unknown, and this is the third biggest reason that so many women reject men for first dates. In any event you have to stay cool, calm and collected. Do not take it personally if she happens to get rude or offensive towards you. She is not talking about you, but possible ghosts of the past, and this is her way of being defensive towards you.
She is also trying to push your buttons to see if she can hit a nerve to throw you into a fit of anger or rage. This will make your quest for her company history. Prove to her that you are emotionally available, and that you are totally in touch with your feelings. Show her that you are capable of expressing your feelings to her in a positive manner. Initially, she will be, for the most part, reserved in expressing her feelings to you. At first, don't be concerned how she feels about you. Make it a point to pour it on and make her feel good about herself. Tell her she's very nice and that she's a very attractive woman. Tell her that you can recognize a good woman when you see one. Let her know that she is lovely. Tell her that she deserves nothing but the best. She'll be flattered.
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