How to Be Seductive, Part 1

The worst thing that you can do, in meeting and dating a woman, is to blow your image and act like an off-the-wall totally insane goof-off. You want to always be in total control at all times. You may have to endure and overcome a lot of challenges, obstacles, and circumstances. A woman looks at your mental and emotional strength as a solid quality and mark of stability. She prefers this over your physical strength. She looks for you to be smart enough to avoid the pitfalls of bad decisions and go forward. A woman desires a man who knows how to lead her in the right direction. This will make her feel proud of you. Look around at so many men who fail and drop the ball. This happens due to their inability to perform on the level that she expects. Due to peer pressure and her expectations, they cave in. Oh what a disgrace and embarrassment it is to a woman when she is fooled by a man. He is a con-man, a fraud, and a phony who has lied to her through his teeth. There are so many men who have severely hurt thousands of women due to bad breakups. This is why it becomes so difficult for the rest of us nice guys to meet and date beautiful women who want to do it right. Never assume that you are the first man a woman has ever met or that she lacks experience in dating. Probably, at one time or another, she had a boyfriend, or she is presently involved with someone. Women, despite whom they are involved with, are on the lookout for men who are better than what they have now. Life is never going to be easy when approaching her. It's one thing for her to talk with you after you've just met her, but it's another mountain to climb to get that first date with her. Her life and her mind are complex with so many options, so many offers, and so many choices to make. She contemplates which way she should go and with whom. Competition with other male suitors is a way of life when it comes to meeting and getting that first date with a woman. However, what most men don't realize, when they are in the hunt, is that competition destroys a dating relationship, and creativity builds a dating relationship. Men, this is where you are going to have to stand out above and beyond the rest of the crowd. You need to be developing the creative aspects of your mind in order to get that first date with a woman. Once you've broken the ice with a woman and you are making small talk with her, the next step is to figure out how she thinks. You'll have to overcome stumbling blocks and barriers in order to get that first date. If she's beautiful, she's never going to make it easy for you. This is where you have to have tenacity, perseverance, stick-to-itiveness, and the ability to hang in there. She is putting you to the test. She wants to learn what kind of man you are, how strong your mind is, and how patient you can be in dealing with her resistance. You must maintain control to keep yourself from being frustrated as she resists and rejects you. You must show warmth and compassion towards her. In the midst of her unwillingness to cooperate with you, you must maintain the aura of being cool, calm and collected. Never allow her to make you angry, because if you do, she's won and you've lost. You will be rejected by her forever, and she will feel justified in treating you as another statistic . Remember that this is a game you are playing with her. All those men, who say they don't need women in their lives, who want to play head games, are the biggest losers of them all. You are playing her game, not yours. If you want to enter her world, with the greatest first date of your life, then you must play these painful, deadly, unmerciful head games with her. Only then will you succeed.

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