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So finally, after several attempts, you get someone to join you for coffee. She takes an interest in you and your distress. Here is where you must show her that you are the weaker sex (swallow your pride and play the game). She is the stronger sex who will take you into her arms and lick and heal your wounds, reviving you back to good health. Tell her about your girlfriend who you are still dating and are on the verge of breaking up with, or have just broken up with.

Let her know that you wanted more out of the relationship than she was willing to give. You tell your new acquaintance, point blank, that your girlfriend, or prior girlfriend, just wasn't interested in growing and having a solid, loving, meaningful relationship, and you were. This will cause your new found friend, if she's interested in you, to start thinking. It will also break down a lot of barriers that normally prevent people from growing and going further into something beautiful with each other.

Your first girlfriend, more or less, paved the way for your new girlfriend to step right on in and take over the journey of going deeper

How to Be Seductive, Part 3

After you have her feeling really good about herself, then ask her what her favorite food is and at what kind of restaurants she enjoys eating. After she tells you, then ask her out for dinner. The odds are, after she sees what kind of wonderful, spectacular man you are, she is going to say, "Yes, I will go out with you."

Play it by ear if she says, "No" or "Maybe." If she just came off a bad relationship, or is in a relationship she wants to get out of, then be kind, considerate, understanding and patient with her. Make a big effort to be her friend. Give her your shoulder to lean on and a lending ear for her to talk to. With many women you have to be patient and allow them enough time to get their heads on straight.

You have to zero in on one woman at a time. After 30 days, if you determine that a woman you are pursuing for a first date doesn't snap out of it and wants to remain as a victim, then it's time to move on to someone else.

There are women who can brood for a lifetime about their past

How to Be Seductive, Part 4

Beautiful women loathe jealous, possessive, abusive men who are insensitive to their feelings. Men who are not interested in being in-tune with a woman's feelings and emotions have caused a great deal of distrust between men and women. This is why you have so many women who would rather bond with their girlfriends for emotional support and encouragement. Men, by many women, have been thrown out. These men are now on the outside looking in. Therefore, as a form of protection, these women have become emotionally unavailable. So there are women who use men for what they can get. Some get involved with a rich man for his money. Others date a man because he is super good-looking. Dating him is more of a status symbol.

What makes you special, over men who missed the boat, is that you are willing to get into her head and act as a sounding board when it comes to dealing with her feelings, frustrations, and sometimes her moodiness.

Biologically, women are different than men. Their metabolism is constantly changing. A woman will take a man who is understanding with a big heart, any day, over a man who is rich or good-looking. Mind you that